People are like countries. They have their own boundaries known as personal space, they have their own national and international interests known as personal interests, they make friends and enemies depending on their interests, if their interests matches then they become friends, if not then they become the opposite. A person should not try to empower his kingdom over another person's territory. It might destroy the person's personal relationship with him as it happens with the countries. Every person has different size of personal space according to his needs, will and satisfaction which should be respected at everytime of the day. The personal space should not be violated at any point as it can destroy the integral solidarity of a person. Like every country has its own geographical and strategical importance in the world likewise every individual has his own importance in his society accorrding to his talent and his actions. Everyone can't become a leader at the same time. There are some platforms which are important for one individual and some other platforms which are important for some others. For eg, a doctor would not participate in a forum which is organised for engineers or bussinessmen. Same is the case with the geographical structure of the world, only islamic nations would participate in a forum organized for islamic nations. The above details only apply for fully grown adults.
Psychological peace is neccessary for any individual to prosper and for its development to reach its ultimate limit. In addition to psychological peace a healthy family lifestyle is equally important. If you look closer these two terms are related. A child can never grow well when his parents are having quarrels and fights during his childhood. This also applies for an adult human being. Despite having all the wealth of the world it is his basic right to have psychological peace, which is also commonly known as peace of mind. For a person he might get utmost peace when he is all alone in meditation. By being alone he is free of all the worldly tensions and meditation can bring him close to allah which helps him get his peace to the utmost level. It also applies for any country, without having peace in its territory it cannot do proper development.
There are several stages which a person experiences while growing up in this world. A child when very young is very delicate so he should be handled with care and affection. He should be told what is wrong and what is right. An individual should experience every stage of life and he should go through the good and bad times of it. To have a taste of all the good and bad stages of life is very important for the psychological and psociological development of an individual. In our society we observe that the adults try to stop their child from going through the bad experience. This helps a child to stay away from those loses which their adults have experienced but in a longer run it does not help a child in his development. When he goes out in the real world tomorrow he doesn't know how to tackle with the hard times of his career. A child should be learned to tackle to the worst period of his career from his childhood and as time goes on.
In our modern society, people try to pamper their child so much that he is unable to face to the hurdle which comes in his ways. In short an individual should be known to love, hatred, jelousy appreciation, criticism etc so that in the real world he could be able to counter it affectively if it comes to his doorsteps. We see that in the modern era the children are given luxurious goods to fulfill their needs by their parent for which they had experienced the hard times of their life. The things which has become the need of the people today were bonus in the lifestyle for the people of the earlier generations. The children experience these things before their time has come. They can't value the worth of the luxurious gadgets which they are using because they hadn't experieneced the hard times of their life to achieve those luxurious lifestyle. It is their parents who had experienced the hard time. My point here is that there is time for everything. When a child start to value their products then is the time they should be given access to it. They should be thought their family traditions and culture and should be reminded of it now and then. People get so much involve in the modern lifestyle that they forget their religious teachings and their family value. At that moment of time starts the downfall of the nation when they become ignorant to their basic root.
I would like to conclude my article on a good note. Life is too short to be sad, there should be no room for hatred in our hearts, always try to make love and care for each other, who knows if he will be here with you tomorrow. Enjot the most as you will remember it for the rest of your life. Try to make people smile. One smiley face can lit up many sad faces. So don't move back. Spread peace and love. take care. Have a blessed day.
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-Written by Ahmed Ahsan Khan
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